LOL well, the most important thing to me is a man who takes care of himself( proportionatly) to the amount of body hair he has... I like a man's body...i know that means hair... but ohlordy... i dont wanna date a gorilla... if the hair is comming out of his shirt collar, action must be taken.. but it is not necessary to take it down to the skin. the biggest turn on is a man who is comfortable in their own skin, be it shaved or not. remember, for you yongsters, that hair is nature's way of protecting against chafing. true.