advice on how to tell someone you smoke...

[TokeyDevil]

I had this dilemma with my last girlfriend. I just told her, and she responded better than I had thought. Often the truth is the most powerful ting, and sometime they don't even care what it is, as long as you're honest about it. and if she truly loves you, she won't care.

[Sleepyhead1]

This has worked for me sooooooooooooo many times. Take out and chil jus like below says. Tell how there has been somethin that has been eatin u up inside so much that u cant kkep it from her anymore because you care so much about the way she feels and didnt want to lose her. But after thinkin bout it you would rather come clean now and then to be known as a lair later. By now her mouth is dry and her heart is pounding cause she thinks your cheating. She may even interupt u and ask "so who is she?" ot "it" By the time u tell her u smoke then she will just be relieved ur not cheating. Explain u kno how she hates it and you would make it a poit that when ur around her not to smoke, smell, or have any of it on your persons while with her. if she comes over make sure ur crib doesnt smell of it and put anything that has to do with it away out of her sight. Tell her thats the respect you'll show cause you feel that strong for her. Explain with any other chick u wouldnt have cared but its different with her cause she is diff. Dont by flowers b4 or after so quick cause she may think ur tryin to win her over with gifts. if this doesnt work......you'll have to find another chick or closet smoke. I havnt closet smoked in yrs though. if she dont like me cause i smoke then she is freeto go whenever she likes. I change for no one but myself or my child. As long as u dont become one of those... man should i buy goceries or a bag type person you'll be fine. Thank god my chick puffs! At times i gotta hide the shit so i can have some when i get home. She tries to be the cheech and the chong of the relationship!!!:rastasmoke:

be straight up..take her out sumwhere and later when you guys are chillin say "babe i want u to know sumthing..i smoke weed. its not like sumthin i cant control, or have a problem with..but ill repsect you if you dont want me to smoke infront of you. its not a drug --then insert drug speech-- and i dont pop pills or do anything crazy like that. i like you [or love] and wanted you to know that this is part of who i am and what i do, im not gunna give up smokin weed for you, but i just wanted you to know, beause i love you nd dont wanna keep anythin secret between us"

worked for me
:jointsmile:

[Storm Crow]

Migraines? Bad Back? ADHD? Scared of Alzheimer's? Just hit the link in my sig and see if anything there can help you! Saying, "Hon, I have a problem that cannabis helps and I use it occasionally" is more acceptable than "I like getting high with pot".

If she really loves you, it won't matter what you do short of murder! Good luck whatever you decide to do! - Granny:hippy:

[nicandy]

Here is how thing went for us: when I met my future wife (and that is waaay back in '78!), I was the non-smoker. I mean, I thought that pot was the way to hell and that it fried your brains. My future spouse was a smoker. All she said was: "let's try it together, and if you don't like it, I will never smoke it again". So we got smoking some good hash, as I recall, and then we engaged in some wonderful sex! Needless to say, I was hooked, both on smoking and on her! Now that we have been married over 25 years, and even though she stopped smoking a couple years after we got married, she doesn't mind that I still smoke regularly.
I know this won't be much help for you, but it just goes to show that you never know how things will turn out!

[Blitzed]

This has worked for me sooooooooooooo many times. Take out and chil jus like below says. Tell how there has been somethin that has been eatin u up inside so much that u cant kkep it from her anymore because you care so much about the way she feels and didnt want to lose her. But after thinkin bout it you would rather come clean now and then to be known as a lair later. By now her mouth is dry and her heart is pounding cause she thinks your cheating. She may even interupt u and ask "so who is she?" ot "it" By the time u tell her u smoke then she will just be relieved ur not cheating. Explain u kno how she hates it and you would make it a poit that when ur around her not to smoke, smell, or have any of it on your persons while with her. if she comes over make sure ur crib doesnt smell of it and put anything that has to do with it away out of her sight. Tell her thats the respect you'll show cause you feel that strong for her. Explain with any other chick u wouldnt have cared but its different with her cause she is diff. Dont by flowers b4 or after so quick cause she may think ur tryin to win her over with gifts. if this doesnt work......you'll have to find another chick or closet smoke. I havnt closet smoked in yrs though. if she dont like me cause i smoke then she is freeto go whenever she likes. I change for no one but myself or my child. As long as u dont become one of those... man should i buy goceries or a bag type person you'll be fine. Thank god my chick puffs! At times i gotta hide the shit so i can have some when i get home. She tries to be the cheech and the chong of the relationship!!!:rastasmoke:

^^

That sounds like actually really good, I was gonna suggest something smart ass like.

"Well.. *cough cough* I smoke pot... *cough cough* (smile) *cough cough* "

[Sleepyhead1]

Thats because it works if your sinscere about it and it isnt just words she wants to hear:thumbsup:

[Paulkishi]

Just straight up and tell her, my girlfriend used to not smoke pot, and she does now. Might work for the best.

[MadSativa]

"Baby, I smoke pot."


Just be -cough- blunt -cough-

yeah I agree dont beat around the bush, then ask if she has a problem if you toke up right their rght now. If she didnt already freak out then their could be a chance, just dont smoke in a cop station or sumthin, or a church........haha