be straight up..take her out sumwhere and later when you guys are chillin say "babe i want u to know sumthing..i smoke weed. its not like sumthin i cant control, or have a problem with..but ill repsect you if you dont want me to smoke infront of you. its not a drug --then insert drug speech-- and i dont pop pills or do anything crazy like that. i like you [or love] and wanted you to know that this is part of who i am and what i do, im not gunna give up smokin weed for you, but i just wanted you to know, beause i love you nd dont wanna keep anythin secret between us"

worked for me
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