Quote Originally Posted by lemonhead
I ballooned up to about 130 at one point (pretty chunky for 5'3"), and although I had no problem with how I looked, I just couldn't get laid for the longest time.
The WHAT? "Ballooned"? Dag, yo... I was carrying a full 185 on a 5-2 frame for a while there and still getting action, skiing my everlovin' ASS off, running, AND fitting into regular sized clothes rather than plus... I think I look my best at 140-145 since I am on the muscular side. I currently wear a size 10-12 at 165. That's certainly not thin, but I'm not going to beat myself up over it! (My mom likes to hassle me though:wtf

BTW, about 130 pounds is considered healthy weight for a 5-3 woman.

Don't even get me started on the pressure to be thin... the very fact that you worded that the way you did makes me sad. It's how you feel about your body and your health that matters. If you have a good attitude, you WILL get laid. If guys sense that you FEEL unattractive, you BECOME unattractive to them. Make sense?