k that was easier than i thought.... he came over, i smoked him out and when he was nice and baked i told him that i wasnt intrested, but i hoped he understood and that it was something that i wouldnt change my mind about, but i hoped we would still remain buddies. i didnt leave any gaps for him to believe he has any chance whatsoever. he was cool about it. he just said "awww you suck." - but, got his guys number first though.... and im gettin my Shit sunday... yay!!!