Suggestions on how to let some one down easy.

[SirReal]

so my dilemma is the following: he has a hook up, that im gonna try to get 4 O's off of for a fantabulous price. Obviously, I dont want to piss him off till after I get my weed, and his hook ups number. but I dont know how to let him down easy. suggestions? thing is this isnt the first time it happens with a potential hook up. Damn, i need to stop bein so sexy all the goddamn time.

Thats fucking HORRIBLE. You're going to lie and pretend to be someone's friend until you can get a hook-up then just desert them... I know he has just put a strain on the "friendship* (or whatever you want to call your lie) by admitting his sexual feelings for you, but you need to either be his friend or tell him otherwise. Don't use people. We aren't vending machines that you can just get what you want and walk off.

[Hilder420]

I'm not takin advantage of anyone. I have honestly been tryin to be his friend for the past month and a half. the potential connection didnt come up until a week ago. I don't believe in using people. i Believe in karma, and i go out of my way to be nice to people. well, some people. This guy is broke like ALL the time. I've been smoking him out for the better part of a month, let him borrow one of my pieces cuz he cant roll joints, and given him weed to take home when im not able to smoke him out. if thats me not tryin..... you misunderstood the fact, that i will keep bein friendly to him, as long as he isnt an ass about me rejecting him. Also i never intended to lie or lead him on thinking he was gonna get some from me, but when i told him no the first time around he wasnt happy with that answer, so i told him id think about it. THAT, is why the thread is called Suggestions on how to let someone down easy, not, how can i string him along till i get my weed... get it right. my dilemma was gettin opinions on how to let him down easy,so we could still be tokin buds AND still get my weed. peace- hilder

[IThinkIamFeelingit]

I'm not takin advantage of anyone. I have honestly been tryin to be his friend for the past month and a half. the potential connection didnt come up until a week ago. I don't believe in using people. i Believe in karma, and i go out of my way to be nice to people. well, some people. This guy is broke like ALL the time. I've been smoking him out for the better part of a month, let him borrow one of my pieces cuz he cant roll joints, and given him weed to take home when im not able to smoke him out. if thats me not tryin..... you misunderstood the fact, that i will keep bein friendly to him, as long as he isnt an ass about me rejecting him. Also i never intended to lie or lead him on thinking he was gonna get some from me, but when i told him no the first time around he wasnt happy with that answer, so i told him id think about it. THAT, is why the thread is called Suggestions on how to let someone down easy, not, how can i string him along till i get my weed... get it right. my dilemma was gettin opinions on how to let him down easy,so we could still be tokin buds AND still get my weed. peace- hilder

you have done your best..just bide your time, get your bud and then be honest with him..you should be cool after that.

[stinkyattic]

This situation sounds a bit scary. If I were you I'd RUN.

[spliffstar22]

just get the bud, and after, tell him straight up, if he cant except it, than its over.....

[Hilder420]

k that was easier than i thought.... he came over, i smoked him out and when he was nice and baked i told him that i wasnt intrested, but i hoped he understood and that it was something that i wouldnt change my mind about, but i hoped we would still remain buddies. i didnt leave any gaps for him to believe he has any chance whatsoever. he was cool about it. he just said "awww you suck." - but, got his guys number first though.... and im gettin my Shit sunday... yay!!!

[GHoSToKeR]

Don't do this.

[Bubbleman]

Now he is out of the picture, we can be together. Hahahahaha. :rasta: :-P

[Hilder420]

Holy Shit, Bubbleman! hahaha u sexy sonofabitch... how u gon put my bidness out there... lol

so anyway update... We Still hang and talk, and smoke... he seems a little more distant i guess now that he knows he has no chance. Fine by me... But hes hinted that he still likes me and tells me im cute all the time.. The first time he saw me with make up on his eyes went wide and wouldnt stop looking at my lips...and commenting on my hair.. hey as long as he doesnt get handsy i wont have to kick his ass.. besides it feels good to get compliments. LOL Peace- Hilder

[hero3279]

You need to slow the hell down, I for one won't believe your yap, there are always 2 sides to every story.