Well, in speaking from former experience, over-eagerness can be a little off-putting. So can anything that borders on stalking or being followed, clinged onto, or adored too closely. The gradual, low-key approach always worked better with me.

When I was in my dating years, the Internet didn't yet exist. So phone calls and visits, flowers and cards were the usual ways in which someone got my attention initially. Also just being funny and nice when we were together.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . The pursuit To the ladies: If you just met a guy in what ways should he pursue you? What scares you off and what makes you melt? To the guys: What are some ways you go about pursuing a lady you know you want but hasn't made her interest in you clear yet? Rating: 5