hmm dont know bout all that. I was thinkin u were talkin bout just sex. it seems to me like you want the whole package, ya know fall in love, get married, then have sex. in that order. maybe you just want your first time to be special subconciously. on the surface, all u can think of is hmm how do i get laid? I've had a virgin... let me tell you.... best sex ever.... i still keep him around... LOL Thing is, alot of men, once they've had sex, and wether the women they slept with really were satisfied or faked it, they get into a pattern of what seemed to have worked the last time. dont get me wrong, i love a dominant take- charge man in bed, (matter of fact, i preffer it) but every woman is different, and so is her body, so virgins are a little more inclined to want to everything I've got to teach. besides the widening of the eyes and stalled breath at first penetration when he realized that no matter how good ur hand made you feel, doesnt even begin to compare. oh I Love it!!! Peace- Hilder