Hmmm, that sounds like a good idea. Thank you, birdgirl! If I could rep you I would. LOL Hilder, sometimes I think about that custom training.. I wonder if the advice to not have serious relationships until you are out of highschool is bad advice. I mean, they say find yourself, but wouldn't it be better for two people to find each other and mold to each other? Seems like that's how most of our grandparents (or greats) did it, and apparently they had very fulfilling and loving lives generally speaking. They're the ones who I hear say "57 years of marriage and we still love each other just like we did in 10th grade", and not just publicly, but in private conversations with both parties (Yeah, I talk to old folks a lot. They have the best stories, like the first time they played baseball at night and it was front page in the newspaper. I don't know why, but that just sounds AWESOME, not like todays which are just minor advancements by small degrees.)