I've tried stuff that like for venting. I'd go in the other room and punch a soft chair till I felt calm. It seemed like if I tried to zen the anger away, the headache would worsen, and if I vented the anger out, the headache would worsen. often I'll wake up in the morning with a headache and it will be there till I go to sleep that night. THese topamax have made the headaches less frequent, and when I have them I can tell they're just as bad, but the lexapro makes me not care that it hurts. weird shit.