well dog I can tell u as a mother of 4 (by the age 21 mind u) it is very hard work and here are alot of changes u have to make I love all my kids, but there were changes with all of them sum good some not so good. Every Child brings added stresseres and problems but for every one of them theres also alot of good things and not so bad things that come of it. Ur a Strong man and im sure u can handle one more lil rugrat and u will figure out how to make do with the other situations to make it easier to have this new baby. Good Luck with whatever happens sweety <3