Are there any other women with this problem?Or just me?

[GraziLovesMary]

Ok so i read on here about women enjoying anal and other courses and really getting off on it. I don't know if it's just me but i'd like some feedback from other women (men too if ya want).I have a really hard time orgasming from intercourse (of any kind) alone.I've tried all different sorts of positions.The only time I've been able to is with my current b/f about a year ago.It happened 4 different times,but hasn't happened since.It's not him and I've been with lotsa different partners,so I don't understand this.Am I just made wrong?Any insight would be nice,because it always makes the guy feel like they're doing something wrong and they're not....I know it's me.

How long do you spend with your knees by your ears? Thats a GREAT position for orgasm through intercourse alone. Brings all those wonderful sensitive organs to a more accessible locale to be frictionized And like everybody else said, double click your own mouse while youre doin it. You arent tryin TOO hard are ya? Thatll throw off ANYbody, guys or girls.

[DarkHairedSativa]

Thanks for your input everyone!!! I really appreciate it!! However Granny you're not old enough to be my Grandma.... only maybe my Mom...lol Not gross out by lovin at any age!!

Also I've found if I orgasm once then go for it again....it takes a long time for the second to happen....I dunno.

[DarkHairedSativa]

How long do you spend with your knees by your ears? Thats a GREAT position for orgasm through intercourse alone. Brings all those wonderful sensitive organs to a more accessible locale to be frictionized And like everybody else said, double click your own mouse while youre doin it. You arent tryin TOO hard are ya? Thatll throw off ANYbody, guys or girls.

Well.....wouldn't YOU like to know....? lol....
Actually alot.I stay that way as long as I can breathe.Sometimes I get too scrunched or my hips start to hurt,but that's the position quite often.AND I probably AM trying too hard cuz if it takes a little while and he starts sighing....it's gone instantly even if I was almost there.I guess I'll just keep trying though.... all I can do!

[OLDE ENGLISH '800]

"Here's the breakdown - about 60% of women can't orgasm from intercourse alone. 20% can orgasm from intercourse occasionally, but need other stimulation, while a final 20% can almost always orgasm from intercourse. And of those women, 5-10% are capable of multiple orgasms. Those women actually don't like oral sex - it's too much for them. Too much stimulus."
Dr. Drew Pinsky -loveline

[Hardcore Newbie]

"Here's the breakdown - about 60% of women can't orgasm from intercourse alone. 20% can orgasm from intercourse occasionally, but need other stimulation, while a final 20% can almost always orgasm from intercourse. And of those women, 5-10% are capable of multiple orgasms. Those women actually don't like oral sex - it's too much for them. Too much stimulus."
Dr. Drew Pinsky -loveline

I find it hard to believe because every girl I've been with would orgasm multiple times from intercourse except one (who orgasmed occasionally during intercourse), and all of them loved oral.

[OLDE ENGLISH '800]

I find it hard to believe because every girl I've been with would orgasm multiple times from intercourse except one (who orgasmed occasionally during intercourse), and all of them loved oral.

i dont know if its true or not but a sex doctor says it so makes it believable..or maybe your just lucky and got the 5-10% :thumbsup:

[Hardcore Newbie]

i dont know if its true or not but a sex doctor says it so makes it believable..or maybe your just lucky and got the 5-10% :thumbsup:

I'd like to think it's because I'm good, but you're probably right in that I'm lucky hahaha.

[420MissHighTimes420]

It's pretty common, sweetie. The fact that you can masturbate to orgasm is good! When the hubby and I "get it on", I frequently "prime the pump" before hand. I take a nice warm bath and masturbate to climax. (The hubby is going to be 66 this year, so he has slowed down a bit- me?, I'm the "Energizer Bunny".) I take a few minutes to settle down and then jump into bed with an ultra-sensitive clit. ( I hope I'm not grossing you gals out too much with my tales of "senior sex"! It does happen, ya know! Check out Yahoo Health News- had an article about it just today.) Climax is a habit- keep doing it and your body learns it. Keep trying, and may all your orgasms be multiple! - Granny:hippy:

LOL if anything that makes me happy, I hoe after I find 'the one' I'll be getting it on with him for many many years, and I hope I can still enjoy it and reach orgasim after that long. So keep it up! hahaha or rather have him keep it up lol grannys imp::hippy:
:thumbsup:

[420MissHighTimes420]

I just wanna throw this out.

From personal experience, I've found many women are almost AFRAID to orgasm fully. I assure you this problem can be somewhat easily fixed, however you DO need to be fully comfortable and emotionally available when the time cums

PS: even TYPING about touching yourself is hot, so dont worry!:thumbsup:

Do any women her agree with my theory that alot of an orgasm for a woman is mental and emotional?

it is DEFFINALTLY a mental thing.
I can't cum if Im not totally comfortable with the guy, and feeling good about myself. To have an orgasim (clitoral Im talking about because unfortunatly I cant speak on the other kind) I have to really want one, and If Im not 100% feelin the guy Im not going to want to have one with him. If that makes sence? Which is why I never get with random guys anymore. Just doesnt feel right I like to be with aguy Im comforatble with and a guy who makes me feel good about myself. It's great to be able to let loose with someone you can be yourself with, and a guy Im comforatablt enough to show how I like it, because I do need very spicific things sometimes to get me to cum. Good damn being single sucksss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[GraziLovesMary]

Well.....wouldn't YOU like to know....? lol....
Actually alot.I stay that way as long as I can breathe.Sometimes I get too scrunched or my hips start to hurt,but that's the position quite often.AND I probably AM trying too hard cuz if it takes a little while and he starts sighing....it's gone instantly even if I was almost there.I guess I'll just keep trying though.... all I can do!

Ahhhhhhh it all seems to make sense to me now... I went through that little slump for a while.. its basically like overstimulation of a good position.. kinda like thats the norm and youre numb to the rest. Or at least thats my psychological take on it. Anyway, in that case switch it up and only move to that when its closer towards the end on your part. He will be probably finish up at the same time... it can get pretty intense lol.