I REALLY don't mean to sound like a jackass when I say this but have you considered talking to a therapist about this? This sounds like classic intimacy seeking behavior and it might be deeper rooted than you think. Of course I'm in no position to cast judgment, and you're probably an otherwise well-adjusted guy but this can't be good for your overall mental health and happiness.

Just my 2 cents...I hope things work out for you
Lankan Lion Reviewed by Lankan Lion on . What is wrong with me? Alright, this has been really hard for me, because I feel slightly rediculous for even thinking this way. I am a 20 year old man, and I've had a beautifull girlfreind for 3 years, and I think I can say we love each other. She is beautifull, nice, very smart, and has a great sense of humor. Here comes my problem - I love someone else, and I have for about 2 years now. More than ever. I love this person more than I've ever loved anyone in my entire life. More than any of my family, more Rating: 5