I have 2 kids... one is 4 and one is 1.. i do not smoke around them but when im with friends or when they are not areound me i do... it doesnt make you a bad parent. its not like you are drunk and taking care of your kids. i dont understand that.. as for me... i am a single mother and my 2 are a lot to deal with sometimes.. when they drive me absolutely crazt in the middle of the nigh when they are fast asleep i go to my car and smoke a joint.. makes me feel better and they havent a clue. i dont keep it in the house and it is NEVER around them. HOW DOES IT MAKE YOU A BAD PARENT??? YOU CAN STILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY!