I was the type who never really attracted girls and I was kinda standoffish but as soon as I started to flirt and spit some game at girls all my girl troubles changed. I guess its not so much as flirting but more that you dont know if someone likes you unless you talk to them and show them a little attraction first. Cant really expect girls to just walk up and make the move on you....unless your like some sexy male model guy that walks in the room and the panties drop.