BFA, I went through something similar recently... a month ago, my girlfriend dropped me, she had randomly grown distant to me a couple months prior and one day ended it. I felt horrible, as things couldn't have been more perfect when the relationship started.

It hurts... I assume you're like me, always working on the relationship, wanting it to work. Even after we broke up, at first I tried to make things better... stay close. But it doesn't work. Every day I talk to her I feel horrible for hours afterwards.

Just listen to everyone else, and move on. It's hard, but eventually the change takes effect and your life will be novel, interesting, and enjoyable once again. Change is inevitable, just flow with it :jointsmile: