No good-ass friends

[Ganj]

Whose got them...whose one of them? I have them and I'm one of them!

Who decides whose good for you? And how can you be sure they're no good? Something attracts you to them...do they smoke you up? Is that all that matters? Maybe it's a recreational friend you see on occasion that gives you what you want but not what you need?

Share your thoughts.

Ganj Reviewed by Ganj on 08-17-2007. No good-ass friends Whose got them...whose one of them? I have them and I'm one of them! Who decides whose good for you? And how can you be sure they're no good? Something attracts you to them...do they smoke you up? Is that all that matters? Maybe it's a recreational friend you see on occasion that gives you what you want but not what you need? Share your thoughts. Rating: 5

[fasterspider]

I am a good ass friend that takes good care of his friends and I have a couple of people that I can really count on if need be, true friends that aint there for anything but the friendship. I love my friends and don't think I would want to be in this world without them.

[Chronisseur]

Proud to be a "good-ass friend"

[O. G. ganja smoker]

i dont have them i used to have a bunch but they never kick it. better for me tho i dont need them, most humans are unreliable as fuck. My Family is the only ones i depend on and are great people although we have are bad moments. im happy though with my life and how things r.:jointsmile:

[Ganj]

I'm trying to understand what brings these kind of people (bad friends) into our lives. Chron & spider, you all say that you're good friends. What makes a good friend? Do your good friends have a relationship with your parents?

I have this idea that bad friends are brought into our lives because the individual generally doesn't care enough about themselves to keep another parent-like figure around them. What do you all think about that?

[Ganj]

Pardon the double post.

Yo, OG...I know what that's like. I have virtually no one but my family that actually cares, and my relationship with them has taken some serious blows. I've dishonored them time and time again and it's unbelievable that I'm still in their presence. I guess that's the measure of unconditional love? Still, I'd like to have something more. The fams are great and all but even they get sick of seeing you sometimes.

[iNHALE.xHALE.]

theres one person i can trust in this world..meka. this chicks been thru heaven nd hell with me and Hands Down id trust her with my life if i needed to. weve gone thru mostly anythin u can think of, nd shes the only person whos been there for me. shes more than a "goodfriend", at times shes been the only thing positive in my world. mann i seriously dont know where id be without her. i started smoking weed with her, done everything else inbetween weed and rehab, stuck it thru with her. believe it or not, it took her giving me a whole intervention type thing for me before i realized that this chick really cares about me more than anyone else. [intervention wasnt for trees..err..it concerned more uhmm.."hardcore substances"] shes the only person in this world who really knows me, knows what im about, shes the only one who's given a fuck about me nd thats what makes her a goodfriend..we know each other in nd out, and i wouldnt give her up for anything..


..uhm that was a little longer than i thought nd almost rant like, fuck it tho im high


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[fasterspider]

I am 45 years old and have nothing to do with my parents and haven't for a very long time. I live 3000 miles away ffrom my family because they always made me feel uncomfortable.
What brought the friends into my life I have now is a jumble of intros. My wife I met at a 12 step recovery meeting and we are together for almost 5 years.
My best friend aside from my wife is my buddy Edgar and we worked together at a motorcycle shop. That is how we became friends, mutual love of Honda motorcycles and my stealing all the knowledge I could get from him on how to work on these bikes I now am the expert at and build for sale.
Another very good friend of mine is a guy I call Parnold but his name is John and he was a customer at the motorcycle shop who pissed us off all the time and still does but we love him anyways because he will always be there for us.
Then I have my internet friends and some of them have become very close also because of a mutual love for the DOHC Honda 79-83 Super Sport.
Then there are people that have the similar kind of bike to mine and they bring their bikes to me to fix because I specialize. They are also friends or brothers in the motorcycle world and I will ride or drive 75 to 100 miles in one direction to go help get their bikes running just because.
My closest friends just happen to be pot heads also which is cool with me, I like to share a good high.

[MadSativa]

I have freinds then I have brothers friends we kick back cause were usualy geologicaly close. Brothers we would do anything for each other, and thogh we dont live close and are not usualy related we keep in touch. And always relay info back and forth to each other. We like to think of it as officers spread out over the land with each of our own little armies. Our friends would do alot for eachother and us but when things need a touch up we form to gether haha usualy we just catchup

[Ganj]

theres one person i can trust in this world..meka. this chicks been thru heaven nd hell with me and Hands Down id trust her with my life if i needed to. weve gone thru mostly anythin u can think of, nd shes the only person whos been there for me. shes more than a "goodfriend", at times shes been the only thing positive in my world. mann i seriously dont know where id be without her. i started smoking weed with her, done everything else inbetween weed and rehab, stuck it thru with her. believe it or not, it took her giving me a whole intervention type thing for me before i realized that this chick really cares about me more than anyone else. [intervention wasnt for trees..err..it concerned more uhmm.."hardcore substances"] shes the only person in this world who really knows me, knows what im about, shes the only one who's given a fuck about me nd thats what makes her a goodfriend..we know each other in nd out, and i wouldnt give her up for anything..


..uhm that was a little longer than i thought nd almost rant like, fuck it tho im high


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That's incredible, man. It almost brought a tear to my eye. Even through all that bullshit...she pushed through because she saw something more than a problem. She sees your beautiful heart and knows the staircase to the window of your soul. I can tell you cherish her.

A lot of people don't have someone like that in their lives...or they just don't realize it yet...?