My friends, Im in tears having to make THE toughest decision of my life

[the joint meister]

damn man that sucks your dad is a real asshole, i don't wish pain on you or anybody hope you can get some help and be back smokin the herb again real soon,


peace out TjM

[ganjzilla]

yeah dude id talk to him when he sobers up, im in the same position with the drunken father except mine doesnt care about weed, alcohol does talk sometimes. get the surgery and smoke behind their back...be very careful, when their not home and or if they leave for a minute...idk if this is helpful at all but i hope things work out for ya

[king of the world]

just tell him that you quit smoking weed and that you would rather want to have the surgery. now if you really cant go without the weed then you will have to smoke in secret. dont let anyone know that you smoke and dont smoke around your dad or at your house.

just a quick question: once you get your surgery will most of the pain be relieved?



i hope everything goes well for you, you deserve it:thumbsup:

[chaliceburn]

Godammit, I had this perfect response all typed out for this and *poof*....

Then I reload the page and tschmidty32 has so uneloquently made the same point.

So now you get the quick and dirty rewrite:

point 1: Dad holds pain relief over your head like a carrot

point 2: You let him. Tell him to rub sandpaper on his balls and not have any booze and then you'll quit smoking weed.

point 3: Life's a bitch, ditch the people that twist the knife when you get stabbed, and for the love of god don't sleep in the same house with people that stab you! Tell dad: "well dad, you've been a shitty father so far, and this is sorta the cake topper for this little going away party... It's best to get as far away as possible from deeply dysfunctional relationships as soon as you realize what's going on...hope you have a better son next time" and hit the road.

He's more concerned about opinions of people he probably doesn't even like than he is about your physical, documented pain.

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a clean bong is a sign of a sound mind

[napolitana869]

I'd talk to your doctor, and if he agrees is it the best option, have the surgery and quit smoking until you move out.

[Demeter]

Poor thing, you are really having a bad spell. I hope your pain is eased by the surgery, and that you are able to hang in until then. Once you are able to work again, you can move away. You father has his own path. On yours, there is a light ahead, and if you remember that, this darkness will be easier to bear. I am holding good thoughts of you in my heart!

[Nation_1ne]

I really hope all goes well mate, I feel for you. You have no choice but to live under your dad's rules if you're under his roof. Tough, but fair and true. Maybe suggest to your dad since you're giving up weed he should give up alcohol. Especially for his son who is in dire need of some love and support.

[UTD Toker]

Thanks guys, I just woke up and I have made the decision to go with the surgury, as it will take most of my pain away (60%-80%), then after I'm healthy and get some money saved up, THE FIRST thing im doing is moving my ass out of here:thumbsup:. As for my dad, he really is a great father, but hes just so confused about my situation and he just refuses to be re-educated about cannabis. He said that he had smelled weed in my room for the past couple of weeks btw, i have a vaporizer for my healh (Which he took away), so i guess he smelled the burned smell in my room. I think I;m going to talk to him today while hes sober and if that doesnt help, im going to talk to the doc tomorow. I def will keep yall updated, as shit since i can't get stoned ill be on here 24/7 haha

[Nation_1ne]

Thanks guys, I just woke up and I have made the decision to go with the surgury, as it will take most of my pain away (60%-80%), then after I'm healthy and get some money saved up, THE FIRST thing im doing is moving my ass out of here:thumbsup:. As for my dad, he really is a great father, but hes just so confused about my situation and he just refuses to be re-educated about cannabis. He said that he had smelled weed in my room for the past couple of weeks btw, i have a vaporizer for my healh (Which he took away), so i guess he smelled the burned smell in my room. I think I;m going to talk to him today while hes sober and if that doesnt help, im going to talk to the doc tomorow. I def will keep yall updated, as shit since i can't get stoned ill be on here 24/7 haha

Good to hear you have control over the situation and thought about it. I wish you the best of luck. You can always smoke outside, or at a friends. If not then giving up cannabis for a little while won't be too bad.

[fuzzybeaner]

man y r u even asking this question the choice is obvious.
keep smoking weed just make sure ur dad dosent find out then get ur surgery and keep smoking weed on the dl if u still have to