grazi... i was in the same boat... except i ended up sleeping with the married chick... heh

and OF COURSE you should.... why ask you? i'll tell you why. Because my life is only mildly entertaining, and i need to live vicariously through those around me. OH and, because you want to..

of course, i completely agree with "once a problem, always a problem"... so both of yall would have to change...

you could do what i have done in the almost exact situation, start back a relationship, get to know her, realize she hasn't changed, nor does she think she needs and/or wants to, still fuck her... AND get closure

remember, the fairy tale isn't that magical in real life