Ugh! I swear Chron, things just aren't the same as they used to be when our parents were growing up. Back then, there weren't so many distractions and opportunities to keep people from giving 100% of themselves to someone else. I have an old soul, yet I'm only 25 so it's hard for me to put up with this crap. And to be honest, I really don't. This girl was an exception up until recently. I guess my point is that it was easier to devote ourselves to our partner because relationships, honor, respect, dignity all of that stuff was held in higher regard. Nowadays it's "what are you gonna do for me?", "how can I benefit from you?", "I think I'll cheat on him for this guy because...", etc etc. I think you get the point.