There is a positive to every negative
I see it like this, "weeding out" the negative elements in ones life is like a manual way of producing a positve environment. As human beings, our emotional intelligence, is the toughest to master, as it seems to interact inconsistently, in the brain.
Which brings me to my next thread: "8 types of intelligence?" (checkitoutnow,funksoulbrother....:stoned


PS: Why cant it be fun for you to find a guy? The fun should be in the excitement that you're one step closer to finding the right guy for you, and having the pure freedom to be alone or with him, or him or even the other guy! I'm not saying be a whore, but being a beautiful person should make it easy to find men who would gladly take you to a restaraunt you've never been, or some other "fun" kinda date. I do give you props aswell for your attitude ie. forgiveness. Its never easy to look BACK with regret or grudge.
KEEP takin' care