Post about your current relationships

[Jouryokujin]

I'm a 19 yr old Sophomore in college. My gf and I have been going on since the day before highschool started. She doesn't smoke, but doesn't care that I do. It's all good though, more bud for me.

[TallulahGreen]

I'm going to be 22 next month..been with my boyfriend since I was 19 years old...friends with him since I was 17 years old..

Hes my best friend ever...and we just moved into a sweet 3 bedroom house..we have 2 dogs and a turtle..

I don't know what I'd do without him. Sure we've had our rough spots, but we always know whatever happens we will work through it, and never does the thought occur to us to break up. We know we have something good, and I feel the longer we are together the better our relationship gets.

I think it takes time to get to know someone, we are all very different, and in order to make something work between two people you have to learn how to do that. Nothing is going to be perfect, a relationship can be very hard..but so can anything. Just gotta work through things, and if the person is worth it, I imagine things will be fine.

He has a great job and I work and go to school. Luckily we get to spend a lot of time with each other still.

I'm pretty stoked.

[couch-potato]

we have 2 dogs and a turtle..

LUCKY!!!

[TallulahGreen]

LUCKY!!!

I consider myself to be very very lucky.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Well, haha you all haven't heard much about my dude and I lately so I'll post here, plus..I'd love to vent haha.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 and a half months and our relationship sucks. I don't know why I'm still with him, I honestly can't figure it out. We break up atleast 3 times a week. It wasn't always like that though, I swear! Maybe I'm holding on to what was once good...the beginning was amazing, he was perfect in my eyes, exactly what I wanted..the "bad boy", lol. He used to fuck me and it was amazing, he'd whisper in my ear and I'd swoon. He'd walk, talk, dance, sing, and I'd drool.

Now, he's madly in love with me, he loves every single thing about me, every flaw, everything. Which wouldn't be a bad thing, if he wasn't obsessive about it. He lives at my house and if he's not here, I'm at his. I never have a free second to myself and if I do it's not for long. He's always up my ass, calling or texting or IMing "I love you" "I love you" "I love you", even my friends are tired of it. He's also an alcoholic. Every fucking day he comes home to me with beer on his breath, the most disgusting smell and taste ever. I stopped drinking because it reminded me of all the times he's come to me, trashed, puking, crying, screaming, angry/sad/too happy, ect. He was abusive for a short period of time, but that stopped quickly once I threatened to leave, now he just fucks with my head when he's mad, threatening to break up with me, like I'd care.. Honestly, in the past two weeks I've thrown his stuff outside 4 times. I used to put it back where it was but now it's sitting in bags near my door, I know we're gonna "break up" again, so why waste my time?

I constantly try to dump him, but he cries or has a fit, if he dumps me he 'takes it back'. I can't figure out how to get the fuck out. I don't even know if I still love him. He's a gangster and I'm not. I like dyed hair and DIY clothes and he hates it. I like ALL music, he just likes rap. I'm way too mature for him, he acts like he's 13. When I'm around him, he makes my skin crawl. I hate kissing him and we haven't had sex in weeks. He disgusts me at times, and other times I just want to strangle him.

[happiestmferoutthere]

I have a great relationship. I've been with my husband 23 years, although we've actually only been married 3. I didn't want to get married,( I wanted an "easy-out" if I needed it) and he was extremely understanding about it. He did not pressure me,although he asked me hundreds of times, and on my 40th birthday we got married. I am truly married to my best friend, and we have a blast together.
We have raised our daughter(she's almost 20 now and married) and we are having fun not having to be "responsible" parents for a change. We are on our second childhood in a sense. Although I had an absolute blast raising my daughter and wouldn't have traded that experience for the world, I am truly enjoying my freedom again!
We have had our moments and our problems(including being separated for a year), but our relationship is stronger and better than ever.
I am truly and madly in love.:s3: Til death do us part!

[thcbongman]

i just moved into Philly so your welcome to come stay at my place anytime

and its awsome you plan on going to Asia, especially Thailand it's in my top 3 countries to go to, most amazing food, and the people I've heard are unbelivably nice --- but maybe not the ones that your going to meet while they try and kick your ass

Hell yeah preach it!

I'm just bias because I'm half-Thai lol!

[FakeBoobsRule]

BFA, how many times have people here told you to dump that loser? Just do it and you will feel so much better. He's going to prison anyway so might as well do it now.

[thcbongman]

Anyway, I am not in a relationship, but in love with someone across the ocean! She was doing an internship for school, but the first day I saw her, I had the hugest crush on her, I thought she was so beautiful. Little did I know, she felt the same way. 2 months passed by, we were so shy to talk to each other, and didn't think we were interested in each other. With a little nudging from a co-worker, 4 days before she went back home, I just kissed her, and everything fell into place, I spent the best 4 days of my life with her. How everything happened, it's so magical.

We talk everyday still, and learning about each other more! It makes me fall in love with her more. I'm visiting her in 4 months, and I simply can't wait to see her!

Even though she's not here, and I miss her, she makes me feel alive and strong. I never been so happy in my life.

It really sounds kinda dumb, but it feels so right!

[birdgirl73]

I'm married and have been for 23 years, almost 24. It's a good and loving relationship, and it's gotten better and easier over the years. I suppose we're accustomed to each other now. We had our ups and downs in the early years but held on. We have one son, and I think it's important for him to see that when the going gets tough, couples can work through their differences without throwing in the towel. We have enough things in common to be compatible but not so much that we bore each other. The heat still exists between us, which is nice. For many couples we know who're at the same stage in life, passion has long since faded.

I haven't been as attentive a wife as I wish I had been in recent weeks, and I feel guilty about that. This has been a strange summer for me. Dave, if you read this, I love you very much. Thank you for putting up with me!