Post about your current relationships

[Chronisseur]

I want to pose this question to get some honest answers. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone else knowing that 99% of them will end someday anyway, leaving you in heartache and loneliness?

I'm not trying to be negative or anything, I'm curious to see why you guys do it.

If I told you that when you turn 45, you had to spend the rest of your life in prison, would you say fuck it and just go now?

[BlAzInIt4:20]

im lonly.. and miss having someone to hold and kiss and cuddle..

I hope i find her soon or vise versa.

But i think i am going to hold off on the account that i am most likly going to move.

[IThinkIamFeelingit]

Relationships SUCK!! Why do I even try? I just want a cool chick...why do women have to trip so much? That is it. Have a nice day.

[stinkyattic]

Feelin'it, women are, like, TOTALLY scared of your muscles, and they know that the side effect of r'oids is tinydick-itis. So That's why dem biznatches be trippin'.

[IThinkIamFeelingit]

Hey, I am 3 inches hard..that might be small I know...but I am thick. LOL

[stinkyattic]

You will just have to date midgets then.

[imitator]

Little late into this thread, but I guess I will post my share.

I am currently dating a girl that I have been with for just over 3 yrs, who I am getting ready to break up with. Love the girl to death, but over those 3 yrs we have both changed alot, and we dont share anything in common. One day I just sat down, and thought to myself, I dont think I would ever hang out with this girl, and we wouldnt be friends at all if we werent dating. And I want who I am dating to be my best friend, someone who I can share some of the things I enjoy with, and thats just not the case.

She doesnt like me smoking, she isnt a big fan of me being a gamer, she doesnt like my outlook on life, and I despise hers... just a bunch of problems that I have been overlooking because I thought loving her meant it was ok to overlook, but I kinda realized one day that you can love someone, but not be IN love with someone anymore. And thats what I feel like here.

The fun part is figuring out how to go about breaking it off with her. I dont want to hurt her if possible, which I know it isnt, but still, you care for someone long enough, and you still want things to be as nice as possible for them, no matter what the situation may be.

[IThinkIamFeelingit]

Nice story..
Yeah, it does sound like your relationship is toward the end...
Life is too short to spend it with someone that you are not a match with...it is torture to both parties..it is just that women get more attached than men do...mostly if the relationship is a total mess...and have a harder time letting go..

Good luck

[twoguysupnorth]

yuk, its all good.

[angry nomad]

My wife and I have been together for almost two years. We are very open about everything. She is a very down-to-earth cool person. She is also my best friend. She pretty much doesn't care what I do, as long as I love her, and am a good person.

Just to give you guys hope that are going through shit, so have I. I didn't meet the woman of my dreams until I was 30. Not saying anyone has to or should wait that long. But, I just wasn't ready. I needed to mature and be my own man before I got married, so I knew I could have a healthy relationship.