Quote Originally Posted by thcbongman
So I guess it's respectful to watch while the bf of the girl he likes is using her for sex. Not in anyway sensual, or from game. From pressure.

The dude obviously likes her for who she is. He isn't concerned about getting any. He's giving her advice, talking to her. He's obviously concerned about her.

Now yes, it's morally questionable. I been that man who had his ex-wife stolen by someone else, not only once, but twice. I know the pain. I should be the one saying it's disrespectful.

But you know what? I dropped the ball. The BF in this case dropped the ball. Fair game.
If the boyfriend was so bad she would dump him, it seems simple to me. I wish the guy who made this thread gets this girl he wants, really i do, i don't want to be a downer. I think it's important to make a good first impression with women, his impression was of a friend. Now, he can turn this around but it is hard. We both know that the boyfriend is trying to use this girl for sex or whatever, however until the girl realizes this i don't think it will change. So thread maker, either tell her how you feel and prepare for a higher percentage of rejection (she's still with him) or wait until she dumps him, because it doesn't sound like long until she will. I believe that if you were to tell her to dump him that would only push them closer together, that's my opinion though. The decision is ultimately yours. I'm trying to save you grief and a lack of confidence. I would try and find another girl, it will probably make the one you like jealous and want you. Think about it and i wish you luck.