Im always just the friend...

[OLDE ENGLISH '800]

you just need to move on dont sit around waiting for something to maybe happen theres plenty of girls out there if she wants you let her come to you i had a friend who was stuck on this one girl for like a year nothing ever happened he wasted time sitting on his ass dreaming about this girl finally he got some sense and relized it wasent gonna happen then went and got a g/f a week later.so to sum it up ether make a move or move on its not worth waiting for nothing get out there and see what else the world has to offer and if its meant to be you'll be together if not so what.thats just my view on the situation.

[Straightupg]

well i pretty much tried to forget about her, and almost pulled a move on this other chick i was hanging out with, and i couldnt. just couldnt get over the fact that i could possibly be with kristen. havent talked to her in days, then i get a txt "hey i gotta talk to you tonight, its about me and dan" i was at work, so i had to wait. she just called and said dan told her this: "i thnk we should work on our friendship. we are still together, but our friendship needs work". my responce- "yeahhhhh, sounds like he just doesnt have the balls to break up with you"
so, she had to go, but we are gonna talk in a bit. not really sure whats up now

[Straightupg]

UPDATE! lol

her- "so i found out what dan meant."
me- oh yeah?
her- yeah he said this: "i didnt actually wanna say it but i guess im breaking up with you. maybe if we work on our friendship it can develop into more later"

basically, shes free, hes a dick and has no balls.

DISCUSS! haha

[ZAD515]

If she's single, that's great. I rarely go for girls with BFs, but it can be done. Especially in a situation like what you had described, all those complaints she verbalized to you were little windows. Widnows to make her realize that he wasn't right for her. But now that's irrelevant.

To avoid being the "friend", you have to retain your sexuality. Certain girls have subtle ways of making it seem like you'll never be able to have anything with them; most of the time, it's shit. I mean, think about it, is it her right to make you into Oprah? If you want to be flirty, be flirty. Don't be afraid to touch (not in the creepy lecherous way, just in the way that says you aren't a wimp and makes little sparks happen). In the worst case, she won't be responsive, you'll still be friends, and you can always flirt with other girls (it's weird, flirting with another girl in front of a "friend" can make her want you more than logic would lead one to believe).

Basically, have fun with it. Romance is supposed to be. Who needs to feel uncomfortable and worried all the time? Too many fish for that.

In response to your other post, why didn't you make a move on the other girl? There's nothing wrong with hooking up with one girl when you like another (as long as you don't lie about anything). At the time, your girl of choice was with some dude. Why couldn't you be with some chick?

I hope that I don't sound like some douche bag misogynist. It just pains me to see goods guys getting played and stuck as friends while the jerk gets the girl.

Love.

[Canadian_Cron]

iunno man ive been in a similar situation before but i cant tell u exaclty what to do cause i dont know what this girl or your situation is exaclty like.... if shes talking about how much of an idiot her boyfriend is all the time or how they fight all the time, hen she might be considering that hes not the right person for and isnt really looking for advice on how to "improve their relationship," but is shes just asking you for advice on how to "get along" with him then shes still into him.

but if u really like her then try flirting with her a little bit or touch her casually while your talking (but not in a creepy im gonna feel you up way) and see how she reacts. then if shes giving you all the right signals then id go for it but the most important thing is if you decide to go for it dont hesitate and make sure your confident about it.

[TheDefiler]

Way to go dude! By what you've been saying i'm almost positive she will go out with u now! Not sure if u should wait a bit seeing as she's on the rebound but by her saying that she wishes she was single so she could go out with u....to me that means that u should go for it cause now she is single! Good luck with this man. Sounds like u could be in for a good time!