Oh yeah, and ladies, if you are tired of assholey men, and there is a nice guy who seems to be trying to get better acquainted with you... PLEASE help him out a bit if you think he's someone you could enjoy being with. To him being too forward is probably one of the defining characteristics of the asshole, which is the nice guy's mortal enemy. In other words, don't be afraid to push things in that direction even if you don't feel an immediate attraction. It might surprise you the way your feelings could do a 180 on you, and for the most part us Nice Guys WONT give you any grief over it if you change your mind about where things are going. Most likely we will just want to know what we could do better in the future. Oh, and we might cry also because we actually have real human feelings, but we'll save that for a pillow. Wow, deep down inside I'm a girl. lol.