Im always just the friend...

[Zcomp]

Not at all. But if she is unhappy with her boyfriend because he doesnt treat her right, and this guy has feelings for it... fuggit. If he wants to express those feelings he should go for it. If she finds it disrespectful she will communicate that to him one way or another. What does he have to lose

Agreed GLM. If he's is straight with her then he'll get a straight answer. And if she trusts him then this won't ruin the friendship even if she doesn't want that. She will believe you when you say that you'll drop it imp: . Which we all know is not a switch that guys have.

[ReUp]

Something I've learned: If you don't want to always be just the friend don't be the guy she talks to about relationship issues.

[Straightupg]

well i was talkin to her friend today, and she went back up to her moms cus shes not moving down here now. w/e, guess thats over with

[Reefer Rogue]

Unlucky, move on and make your intentions knownfrom the start, if you like them more then a friend, tell them.

[THClord]

Straightupg I know how you're feeling, I'm kinda same as you, but I decided to take more risks even if I get rejected. I did get rejected by the girl I liked, but I think it was worth it. We're friends now. But at least I can be totally honest with her now, which makes things nice. Next year she's living in the same dorm building, just above me totally by accident.

I know if I hadn't told her how I feel, not trying at all would've killed me.

But it makes me think. There was a girl who had a HUGE ASS crush on me. She even gave me a booty call after I rejected her. I even rejected the booty call... Why does it happen to me every time that the girls who have crushes on me are the girls I don't like? Do girls like guys who don't give a shit about them and are assholes or what? There was even real hottie with a crush on me, but she is so dumb... I couldn't stand being near her.

BTW, don't hold back any criticism of me if you think I'm doing something wrong. I do not take negative criticism as offense, but instead as places I can improve.

[JD1stTimer]

Lol, if girls like guys like that, this one girl that I liked a lot and she liked me would freaking fly back to Dallas if I called her and asked her too. I just quit calling her, not even once in the past five years, just because she said she might go to Utah with her mom and dad or she might go to college just south of Dallas and I thought if she went to Utah I would be soooo sad I would do something terrible. So I didn't even call her again to find out. How jerky is that? And to think she could have been close by all this time and I don't even know!

[Straightupg]

heh, odd thing happened. i was at the local fair and got a call from her. she wanted tot alk but i couldnt at the time. then my phone went dead, so i didnt call her back like i said i would. oh well, i just dont know if i can see myself in a long distance relationship like that. besides, her bf apparantly decided to respect her morals over the weekend and they are still together. im going to smoke, peace

[blooregard]

this could be helpful if they break-up and she says something hinting she would like to go with you you have 48 hours to tell her how you feel other wise you be on the friend boat of foreverness

[Straightupg]

well, it happened 2nights ago, we both know how we feel. heres some convo:
we were talkin about goin to a movie, which happened to be a romance. she suggested it.... wooster241=me
wooster241: just dan might have a problem with that
wooster241: haha
her: ok right now he is at his friends house with a bunch of girls
her: he better not have a problem with that
wooster241: i doubt anyone would cheat on you
her: i konw but ppl are alwasy tempted
her:
her: but we have self control
her: at least i do
wooster241: well, thats unfortunate that you have self control :P
her: unfortunate?
her: haha
wooster241: yeah unfortunate for me that you have self control
her: haha cute ohhhhh
her: i would never cheat on anybody

then basically i she asked if i ever got cheated onand i went into detail, then:
her: why would someone cheat on such a nice guy like you?
wooster241: heh...
wooster241: idk

she then asked about how the fair was, and if i look for girls there, and im like, yeah im single why wouldnt i.
her: i probably should not say this at all but a knida wish i was single right now
wooster241: oh yeah? whys that?
her: because your an awesome guy
wooster241: oh, so you wish u were single for me
her: fun to talk to
wooster241: lol
wooster241: i thought u menat just in general
her: kinda not going to lie
wooster241: well i wish you were single too....

basically it then led into me saying how its odd how shes saying this and she has a bf. and now its just really wierd right now between us, i mean she still talks to me like a friend, and like normal, but i just dont know how to take this.
i knew it sucked when this happened:
her: i'm not going to stop talking to youjust because i kinda have feeling for you, i guess you can say
wooster241: i just feel wrong, cus your still with dan, and we both have feelings for each other in a way
wooster241: and even you said everyone has temptations
her: even if i have temtations like i said before i have self control. haha
wooster241: heh
wooster241: i just dont know
her: haha we can have a brother sister relationship
her: i mean, ill still be with dan, but we can umm....
her: im not really sure

right now im so confused, and its jsut fucked up right now.

[thcbongman]

You should have kissed her!

F that Dan dude. It's not like they're married.