Quote Originally Posted by drivebyphilosopher
If, and thats a BIG if (because I've been burned by women before) I find another one, you can damn well be sure I will give it a lot more time before I take the plunge. She was not ready for this, and I was not ready for her. This whole event was so immature and brash.
Dont feel bad dude Ive been there, I just got lucky and found her cheating before we got married. 4 years down the drain, but Im enjoying life single. Im not worried about sex, although its definitely something to miss, but I am happy. Just learn from the things that dont turn out the way you wanted them to.. analyze the "failures" then stop viewing them as failures and as lessons.

My immediate advice: begin the divorce process immediately. I am totally against divorce but in reality you guys got married way before you were ready, it was impulsive and doomed from the start. In no way is that your fault though, we are all just pawns in the game of love.