A Girls voice here.:hippy:That really sucks I can understand somwhat how you feel. I am 20 years old I live with my 24 year old wounderful boyfriend I hope to marry one day. I have depression like your wife, depression is terrible. I've been working on what her habit is to. I am lazy and i procrastinate, I don't have a job wish I had one but want to get my high school diploma first. I am going to get better and treat my boyfriend better. But your wife does need help, try talking to her mother so she can slap some sence into her. My mom is always telling me to do better. Depression takes alot out of a girl cause we have so many emotions going on. Be patient with her always, walk away from lots of arguments when they are going no where. And yea I agree probaly the best thing for you to do is cut her off. She needs to learn life is about working to keep yourself living not being lazy.