My wife left me... So I got high

[Number 1 DJ]

yo man whats done is done who cares what other ppl think yo! tell em to F*** themselves the biggest mistake here would to stay with her and make ur self miserable ppl forget shit fast anyways if ur really worried about it and ppl that make fun of u are not ur friends

[FakeBoobsRule]

Depressed.... I dont know. I took on mental disorders for a wile. To me it just sound like is is F!@king lazy man.

Igot you must have missed driveby's follow up post to mine:

She's been to the doctor and is on antidepressants. I think she's bipolar though moreso than depressed. The psychiatrists refuse to see her because we don't have money or insurance.

Driveby that's tough because obviously she needs to be treated properly before you can decide your future but the writing is on the wall.

I love her, and if I leave her, I don't want everyone to tell me "I told you so" and everyone to think of me as a failure. I can't handle that..

Sometimes our best actions only result in rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic. Would you rather keep this up for another few years only to end up leaving her and then have everyone tell you "Wow, we really told you so?" Get her some help soon so that you can make a proper decision on your future.

[Dr HaZzMatT Esq.]

i have to say sucker one more time so you get it....
sucka

Its just, guys, I can't handle being wrong about everything that has happened in the past 3 years. I've stood up for this woman like nobody's business. Hell, I took on 7 total strangers for making fun of her. I've stood up for her for family and friends, and made lies to cover her ass. I love her, and if I leave her, I don't want everyone to tell me "I told you so" and everyone to think of me as a failure. I can't handle that..

Then stay sad & upset
sucka!

[HighTillIDie]

Its just, guys, I can't handle being wrong about everything that has happened in the past 3 years. I've stood up for this woman like nobody's business. Hell, I took on 7 total strangers for making fun of her. I've stood up for her for family and friends, and made lies to cover her ass. I love her, and if I leave her, I don't want everyone to tell me "I told you so" and everyone to think of me as a failure. I can't handle that..

swallow your pride... don't what's right when you know you are/have been wrong, is very liberating, but hard

fuckin married people and "i don't want to be a failure" GOD i hear that shit soooooooo mmuch from young couples...

TOO BAD, marriage is fucked, it is only for 20% of the population... we don't live in a caste society anymore...

dude, what other option do you have, you are smart... none, unless you are cool with having a lazy naggy queen bitch, who will take your money for nothing in return but stress...

i will get married
a)when i find a rich chick who has it so good, i don't mind being a bitch
b)i am old, and set... and i want some younger chick for arm candy... who cares what she does?
c) when i find somone who fits me perfectly, and ebbs to my flow, and greatly enhances my life, and wants to keep me happy (of course it goes both ways)


which option sounds less likely.......... C

[igot4cheep]

Its just, guys, I can't handle being wrong about everything that has happened in the past 3 years. I've stood up for this woman like nobody's business. Hell, I took on 7 total strangers for making fun of her. I've stood up for her for family and friends, and made lies to cover her ass. I love her, and if I leave her, I don't want everyone to tell me "I told you so" and everyone to think of me as a failure. I can't handle that..

Believe me man I mean this is the nicest way possible. You are ONLY 19 stop acting like you are 91. You life has not even begun yet. Chill out smoke one and calm down. This sound like this is the first time you got your heart broken. Yea I know you love her and you put so much time in the whole relationship. But there is a time you need to do what is best for you. I am sure all the older people here can tell you the same. It is your first and it will now be your last. Itâ??s sucks every time but it will make you stronger in the end. Calm down, chill out and think.

BTWâ?¦ Never taken on 7 guys unless it a life or death matter.

[drivebyphilosopher]

Sometimes our best actions only result in rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic. Would you rather keep this up for another few years only to end up leaving her and then have everyone tell you "Wow, we really told you so?" Get her some help soon so that you can make a proper decision on your future.

You raise a very good point here...

I'm going to have to make sure things change before I let her come back. I won't, unless things change.

[HighTillIDie]

BTW no one cares about divorce anymore... just married people, or divorcees

now society does judge marriage failures when there is kids involved, but that is fuckin retarded too...

i'm not takin anyones shit unless i get something out of it... you cannot put somone's happiness, or what society thinks ahead of your personal happiness... why you think OJ killed that cheatin whore... he snapped

[HighTillIDie]

You raise a very good point here...

I'm going to have to make sure things change before I let her come back. I won't, unless things change.

lol change


i am gonna call you dr kid

[drivebyphilosopher]

Believe me man I mean this is the nicest way possible. You are ONLY 19 stop acting like you are 91. You life has not even begun yet. Chill out smoke one and calm down. This sound like this is the first time you got your heart broken. Yea I know you love her and you put so much time in the whole relationship. But there is a time you need to do what is best for you. I am sure all the older people here can tell you the same. It is your first and it will now be your last. Itâ??s sucks every time but it will make you stronger in the end. Calm down, chill out and think.

BTWâ?¦ Never taken on 7 guys unless it a life or death matter.

I agree with everything you said and I'm sorry for holding on too hard to something that I can't control, save for the whole "first time you've had your heart broken" stuff. I've had it worse before, actually. I had one chick break up with me on a hospital bed once when I was thinking I was gonna die, said she cheated on me, that was tough. I'm smoking a fattie right now reading all of this. Thats what I like about smoking fatties... gives you a little perspective on things. I understand everything you guys are saying, just know that its VERY hard on me, because I've busted my ass for the last 3 years and it seems like its ammounted to nothing.

[igot4cheep]

Thank You....
You know HighTillIDie is telling you some real shit too man.