Quote Originally Posted by drivebyphilosopher
She's bluffing, guys! Lol. She really is, and I know it today. See, I thought she packed up her big boxes of sentimental stuff, becuase she had them all on the bed and ready to bring out with her. I just found them all in the closet. She would NEVER leave these in someone elses hands, they are important momentos to her, such as the flag from her dad's flag draped coffin. She's bluffing, and she will come back. Not that I'll take her back as - is, some things have got to change, but its good to have the info that she's bluffing.
Of course she's bluffing! That's what alot of women do. Pack their stuff and threaten to leave...or leave for a few days...as a way to punish you and make you realize how you can't live without her, blah blah blah. If you want to stay with her, you have to sit down and have a serious conversation. Don't talk at eachother...never start a sentence with "you"...always start with "I" as in "I feel that you need to help with the chores." That's how we work things out b/c you don't feel like you're being attacked by the other person. Just a trick I learned from daytime television

I hope every thing works out well for you.