I was pretty damn high last night. My wife left me, went to stay with her parents. We had a big fight. Allow me to set the scene...

We're both incredibly young. We got married right out of high school, as we were with each other for 3 years in high school. We had never lived with each other, so that was a bit of a mistake. I'm 19 now, married, and in college with a TOUGH major. I'm trying to become a doctor, and I've got a pretty good chance with my grades.

Now, I don't know about all of you, but it's tough to live on your own with no support from your parents while taking college classes. Furthermore, it's even tougher to live while supporting a spouse who refuses to work, clean, or do anything at home. That's the problem... I've been working 100 hours a month on top of 12-15 hours of class each week. I have been so busy, too busy to clean up the house. So anyway, I keep coming home, and the house is a wreck... papers everywhere, she leaves food out, the laundry gets piled to where it is taller than me, and cat shit is everywhere. She doesn't change the litter box, but she blames the messy house on the cats. Well, let me tell you, the cats don't let the dishes pile up to kingdom come.

She doesn't contribute, and doesn't help me out. She takes too much, and doesn't give. I work my butt off for her. So how does she treat me? Like she's the victim and she's the one who'se made sacrifices. Just because she had a chunk of cash when she came into this marriage a year ago apparently means that she doesn't have to work, because "She's already made her sacrifice." I'd be more understanding if she had a job, or college classes, but she literally has NOTHING, and does NOTHING. She's got no friends, and threatens to commit suicide every time we have a big fight. She's violent, blows up randomly, and even punches me (I don't hit her back though, I'm a respectful guy towards women).

Well, someone told me that I really should just lay it down to her and let her know I wouldn't tolerate it. I did, for about 1 hour, I just stood up to her and let her know how angry it was making me. I didn't do this suddenly, either. I had asked her to go pay a cable bill, and she said she would. Later that day when I reminded her, out of nowhere, she yelled "Shut up!" So I just told her for an hour how horrible it was that she doesn't want to help, how much she would fail as a parent if she couldn't handle basic responsibilities, how I love her but need her to take up the slack, etc.

Well, she left me after I said that. Maybe she will come back, I don't know, I feel like crap right now. I'm pretty high too. I was very stoned last night. I need to just relax, maybe everything will fix itself. I don't know why I posted that here, but I know that stoners can be very accommodating.
drivebyphilosopher Reviewed by drivebyphilosopher on . My wife left me... So I got high I was pretty damn high last night. My wife left me, went to stay with her parents. We had a big fight. Allow me to set the scene... We're both incredibly young. We got married right out of high school, as we were with each other for 3 years in high school. We had never lived with each other, so that was a bit of a mistake. I'm 19 now, married, and in college with a TOUGH major. I'm trying to become a doctor, and I've got a pretty good chance with my grades. Now, I don't know about all of Rating: 5