My wife left me... So I got high

[drivebyphilosopher]

I was pretty damn high last night. My wife left me, went to stay with her parents. We had a big fight. Allow me to set the scene...

We're both incredibly young. We got married right out of high school, as we were with each other for 3 years in high school. We had never lived with each other, so that was a bit of a mistake. I'm 19 now, married, and in college with a TOUGH major. I'm trying to become a doctor, and I've got a pretty good chance with my grades.

Now, I don't know about all of you, but it's tough to live on your own with no support from your parents while taking college classes. Furthermore, it's even tougher to live while supporting a spouse who refuses to work, clean, or do anything at home. That's the problem... I've been working 100 hours a month on top of 12-15 hours of class each week. I have been so busy, too busy to clean up the house. So anyway, I keep coming home, and the house is a wreck... papers everywhere, she leaves food out, the laundry gets piled to where it is taller than me, and cat shit is everywhere. She doesn't change the litter box, but she blames the messy house on the cats. Well, let me tell you, the cats don't let the dishes pile up to kingdom come.

She doesn't contribute, and doesn't help me out. She takes too much, and doesn't give. I work my butt off for her. So how does she treat me? Like she's the victim and she's the one who'se made sacrifices. Just because she had a chunk of cash when she came into this marriage a year ago apparently means that she doesn't have to work, because "She's already made her sacrifice." I'd be more understanding if she had a job, or college classes, but she literally has NOTHING, and does NOTHING. She's got no friends, and threatens to commit suicide every time we have a big fight. She's violent, blows up randomly, and even punches me (I don't hit her back though, I'm a respectful guy towards women).

Well, someone told me that I really should just lay it down to her and let her know I wouldn't tolerate it. I did, for about 1 hour, I just stood up to her and let her know how angry it was making me. I didn't do this suddenly, either. I had asked her to go pay a cable bill, and she said she would. Later that day when I reminded her, out of nowhere, she yelled "Shut up!" So I just told her for an hour how horrible it was that she doesn't want to help, how much she would fail as a parent if she couldn't handle basic responsibilities, how I love her but need her to take up the slack, etc.

Well, she left me after I said that. Maybe she will come back, I don't know, I feel like crap right now. I'm pretty high too. I was very stoned last night. I need to just relax, maybe everything will fix itself. I don't know why I posted that here, but I know that stoners can be very accommodating.

drivebyphilosopher Reviewed by drivebyphilosopher on 08-14-2007. My wife left me... So I got high I was pretty damn high last night. My wife left me, went to stay with her parents. We had a big fight. Allow me to set the scene... We're both incredibly young. We got married right out of high school, as we were with each other for 3 years in high school. We had never lived with each other, so that was a bit of a mistake. I'm 19 now, married, and in college with a TOUGH major. I'm trying to become a doctor, and I've got a pretty good chance with my grades. Now, I don't know about all of Rating: 5

[igot4cheep]

I am so sorry to here that.... I have some thing for you. Give me a few min to put it togeather for you.

[drivebyphilosopher]

Thanks igot4cheep. This is actually the first time we've been apart for several months, and definitely the first time she's "left me"

[igot4cheep]

FTS... Her you go I wrote you a song. I hope you like it,

I got married right out High school because I got High.
I marred my High School sweetheart because I got High.
I wanted a happy life and I know why because I got High, because I got High, because I got High.

I am going to Medical School because I got High.
I am working 100 hours a month because I got High.
Trying to get a better life for my wife and me you know why because I got High, because I got High, because I got High.

Now my wife wonâ??t clean the house because she got high.
She wonâ??t the gotdam house because she got high.
I think I hate this bitch and I know why because she got high, because she got high, because she got high.

I come tired as shit because I got high.
I come piles of dirty dishes because my wife got high.
Now my house smell like old cat shit and I know why because I high, because I high, because I high.

I have given so much of my life up for her because I high.
Now I know I hate bitch because I high.
I leavening her ass in middle of the night because I high, because I high, because I high.

I just got graduated Medical School and great life because she high.
She missed out on a great life because she high.
Now I am banging a super model and I love my life because I high, because she high, because we high.




All in all man donâ??t let any one push you down. You can do bad buy your self. So if she wants to act like a fool then let her. Just do it from across town. You guys are young and people change. So donâ??t get stressed out and fuck up your life over something that is trivial. Keep up the good work and maybe itâ??s time to trim the fat from you life. I just shaved off 160 pounds if you get my drift. Remember on how this feels so you will not have to go thru it again and you can be happy. GOOD LUCK MAN.

[drivebyphilosopher]

hahaha! Oh man, thanks dude... that really helped. You're a riot. Seriously... I never thought I'd ever have to go through all this, but we at cannabis.com are like a big family. Maybe this is all for the better, even if she doesn't come back... I don't know how to feel, but you're right, people change, and if its not meant to be its not meant to be. Still, she's my wife, and I feel my duty to her every day. She just doesn't feel the same way..

I won't leave her. She's gonna have to leave me.

[rguitar87]

damn i just smoked my first dro of the day and this is a sad post. I feel your pain man...my girlfriend has been very difficult and I'm 20. :stoned:

[recz0r]

Now my wife won’t clean the house because she got high.
She won’t the gotdam house because she got high.
I think I hate this bitch and I know why because she got high, because she got high, because she got high.

I come tired as shit because I got high.
I come piles of dirty dishes because my wife got high.
Now my house smell like old cat shit and I know why because I high, because I high, because I high.

I have given so much of my life up for her because I high.
Now I know I hate bitch because I high.
I leavening her ass in middle of the night because I high, because I high, because I high.

I just got graduated Medical School and great life because she high.
She missed out on a great life because she high.
Now I am banging a super model and I love my life because I high, because she high, because we high.

that part was sweet goodness, ill tell you like ive been told all my life, "dont sweat the small stuff, only the big stuff like life" bitches come and go, get yourself together there will be plenty more women in your life time, dont fret over some broad who isnt worth it man. Good luck!imp:

[drivebyphilosopher]

Thanks.

I mean, am I unreasonable? I try to see things from her perspective, but I just can't for the life of me put myself in her place when she told me to "shut up" when I told her to go pay a bill that was due... after she originally told me she would in the first place. I can't put myself in her place when she's too busy playing neopets or some other online game to just help out with the basic necessities of taking care of a home.

[FakeBoobsRule]

Driveby, do you think she could be depressed? She is showing some signs of it.

[Number 1 DJ]

man ur situation suks but try to look on the bright side of things at least ur healthy (i think)ur not gonna die from this and at least u dont hvae a kid! man if u had a kid with her u would have to be tied to this girl until the kid turns 18 and not to mention how much it would suck for a kid to have a split family if u guys did divorce or w/e but man i wish u the best of luck and hope u can get things back together well.