Sad, but not quite.

[Matt the Funk]

Your friend sounds bipolar haha....this is actually something i've done before. Sometimes you just can no longer put up with peoples crap. But you seem like a nice person so idk.

Matt the Funk Reviewed by Matt the Funk on 08-14-2007. Sad, but not quite. My real good friend just told me she never wanted to talk to me again. Why? I asked her a question and she went off! Told me how selfish I was and I play too many mind games as if I get off on it and went on with the negative things about me. How pessimistic and cruel of her. To be honest, I had no idea where all this was coming from, some sort of place where she harboured ALOT of resentment towards me. Things like this really makes you feel like a horrible person, I know I'm not.. but she's Rating: 5

[geonagual]

That's a good question.

What ever you asked her right there, you know, might have been the straw the broke the camel's back. Really think about yourself in her eyes, think about what she said. Ask some of your friends specifically if you're like anything she said, and demand an honest answer. If they say you are like any of what she said, you should really make a determined effort to change that aspect of yourself.

I while back I had a friend that I went off on. He did something, and kept thinking I was bitter over that and that's why I went off on him. But it was really that I was sick of his personality, he was selfish, used people, took advantage of his friend, and always put himself before others (to be short and general). When I went off on him I let him know that I can only put up with so much and what he did was just the breaking point. I told him if that's how he's gonna be I don't want to be his friend. I don't want to talk to him or see him unless he changes. I told him I don't care if he takes it to heart or not, but if he cared about our friendship he would take it to heart.

Well I completely avoided him. At first he tried to hang around me like after a week, but I kept avoiding him. It was a good long while, probably 2 months before I went around him again. But I think the seriousness set in and yeah he did change. He's a much better person and we're closer friends for it.

So, if you have any doubt in yourself about what she said, you might wanna consider changing that about yourself. You said it's a real good friend? Well, if you value her friendship, you probably should try to remedy the situation.

And I don't think she's trying to come off as cruel or pessimistic, she's probably just sick of it. She's trying to help you. It may come as a shock to you, but it's reality. If she puts a mirror in front of you and you don't like what you see, then don't blame it on her, it's you who has to change.

haha...i didnt even catch that you caught that...but yeah, most people, even myself dont see ourselves the same way other people see us...honestly, laying out the truth on someone is not an easy or nice thing to do, mostly in anger...it is something that must be done with soft gloves otherwise both parties will end up saying things that can never be taken back...hope that made sense, cause I am not gonna reread it...cause I am STONED:smokin: