I totally agree with Storm crow, you can do whatever you want in life and still be a pot head. I have smoked for 13 year's, am a father of two and I like to think a good husband. We own our house and also have a small cottage. I am a foreman for a multimillion dollar company with 8 people working under me daily. To me smoking a bowl at night is my beer after work. The only difference being that pot happens to be illegel so I have to be a little more conservitive about where I do it and who I am with. You are the one who decided's what kind of life you want to have and if you want to continue enjoying cannabis. Just my thought's...