Your not pathetic, in the slightest. HE IS PATHETIC.

That silly inconciderate bastard is an idiot. He doesnt deserve you. It's as simple as that.

What he deserves for acting like a spoilt little kid is a smack around the chops. He needs a wake up call. A serious one.

Think about it. Do you really love him?

Sit him down, and talk to him. Really talk. Tell him everything, and make him tell you how he feels. Dont accept the usual nods and grunts - make him talk, and make him listen to you. At the moment your on top, because you've done nothing wrong.

If you want to talk and he doesnt, knock him out and tie him up, so when he comes round he HAS to listen.

Dont take his shit - and dont feel you owe him ANYTHING [apart from the obvious wack over the head with a cricket bat ]

I'm not good with advice - you can probably tell. BUT, what i said is true. It's not your fault, and your NOT pathetic in the slightest. Remember that!