I feel so drained and used

[spliffstar22]

maybe he doesnt eat out.......?
i dont know, that sounds like some fucked up shit, i always stand on my own 2 in relationships, he sounds like a moocher, u should get rid of him, and find yourself a real man, and that's comin from me, but even i dont do any of that shit.......lol
and relationships are give and take, not just take, like he's doing, you should be takin too, unless he's a brokeass, then, i dont know what to say....lol

[Storm Crow]

Sweetie- about the class- right idea, wrong class! Computers, drafting, co-ed sports! Look in on the classes before you sign up! Certain classes have a preponderance of one sex or the other. Had one dude admit once he took "Women's History" to meet gals! It worked! He also got an "A" in the class for providing a "male" viewpoint! lol

Now about the self esteem, Whew! I got it too! My Dad was absent much of the time (sub duty in the Navy) and Mom was a bitch on wheels- alcoholic, bipolar, promiscuous, talented and beautiful. She did a number on my head. I know intellectually I am brilliant, talented in many ways and do a job better than most. Emotionally, it's always "Am I good enough?"

So I have turned it around! I am remarkably reliable and competent! I watch each detail. My bosses love me! So I can tell that nasty little voice "SHUT UP! I'm doing it right!" I know it will always be there, but I am more than it is! I will not let it rule me! Take your power back!

I remember all the shit that has been done to me. Not to make me bitter, but to remind myself that I have survived it ALL! You have survived this guy. You are examining your reasons for being with these guys- EXCELLENT! Now "shut the door" on that fool and get on with your life! - Granny:hippy:

[stinkyattic]

Listen to Granny, chica. She's got the right idea.

[Ganj]

Boy does she ever! I'm not even a girl and her advice works for me also.

[GraziLovesMary]

Im a bit hesitant of meeting people off of the internet, but I know NO ONE in this city, and I think I would be open to it -- espicially if its through someone on this site. edit :IM me at chelss80 and we can chat about it there, Im online all day 9 - 5 30 at work.

hehe is that AIM? ...

DAMN IT!! what is this power you women have over me???

[420MissHighTimes420]

yes it issss
you make me cheese!

[GraziLovesMary]

yes it issss
you make me cheese!

hehe Id like to make you do alot more than that..

GOD DAMNIT!! I DID IT AGAIN!!

[khronik]

I'd like to point out that a lot of girls make the mistake of waiting for guys to come to them. Come to think of it, a lot of guys make the mistake of waiting for girls to come to them too. Another common mistake is trying to meet people at places where you probably won't find such a great selection, like bars.

If you're looking to meet guys, I guess it depends what type you're looking for. For instance, single nerdy guys are a dime a dozen. Private parties are great for meeting people.

It can be hard to approach people though, especially when you're self-confidence is in the gutter. This is why internet dating sites can be great, since you have such a small emotional investment. Plus you don't have to invest a lot of time either. If you don't like someone, it's really easy to just not give them any personal information and stop emailing them. Plus, you can do all that at home, where you're comfortable.

[KHAN]

The more you give, the more people will take and think you a fool for it. You sound nice I'm sure you'll meet someone better.

[thcbongman]

hehe Id like to make you do alot more than that..

GOD DAMNIT!! I DID IT AGAIN!!

How sweet.

You guys better be making babies tonight.