I feel so drained and used

[GraziLovesMary]

You would be a rich man if you did that! lol

Im about this close to taking you up on your offer. Psh..

hehe I wouldnt do it for the money, silly!

And youre more than welcome, you just cant fall in love with me! Im going to Thailand in a few years to train in Muay Thai in the temples there, and from there Im going to Shao Lin, I dont wanna hurt anybody

[khronik]

Here's an attempt to explain this guy's psyche. Maybe it'll help.

This guy gets his kicks from walking all over you. I had a roommate that was like that. He never had a hard time finding women either. The problem with him is not that he's oblivious to the fact that he's treating you like shit, it's that he enjoys treating you like shit! In his mind, the more you will put up with to be with him, the better that makes him feel about himself.

If you stand up to him, he'll do one of two things. He will either twist things around to make you feel guilty and make it seem like everything's your fault, or he'll make some token gesture, hoping that you, being attention-starved, will eat it right up. See, he won't just leave, even though he has no interest in you, because he has absolutely no respect for you. And if someone he has no respect for breaks up with him, what must that make him?

Some guys will be assholes if they're trying to get a girl to leave them, but I think you've been with him long enough that this isn't the case. But in any case, he has no respect for you and you need to leave him.

And here I feel guilty when my girlfriend IMs me and I don't feel like talking. (I do anyway)

You really need support from your friends or your family. Internet message boards might do in a pinch, but you really should think about trying to reconnect with your parents or something.

Good luck...

[thcbongman]

^^Thank you all so much. It is clear what I am supposed to do, and that is to dump his ass ... and here it comes .... BUT I can't handle ANOTHER failed relationship, I'm not ready to deal with it, I know it will only get worse as time goes on, but right now it will kill me. I can't keep friends longer than a few months -- the one best friend I had I just cut out because I'm able to be a bitch to girls -- I have lost all connection to my parents sinceI moved out. and I have gone through some BADDDDD break ups before.
here I could keep going on with excuses. your all right. I needed to hear it, and hopefully I iwll find it in me to be alone for once.
Once agian thanks.

It'll be tough, you don't have to go and find one right away. One day, it'll just happen, and you'll meet a guy that's great for you, at the least expected time.

Just be the best person you can be. Concentrate on other aspects of your life. To meet good people, you have to do good things.

[couch-potato]

I really can't understand why you're still with the dude if this is all true. Honestly, what the hell are you waiting for? If you tell yourself that you weak, chances are you're going to actually believe it after a while!



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Dump him yet? There are plenty of willing young males under the internet tag of 'couch-potato' who are willing to pick up where this douche bag left off. What kind of pathetic excuse for a man doesn't eat pussy and bums weed off of his girl? I wish I could E-knock-bitches-the-fuck-out through my monitor.

[420MissHighTimes420]

Im done ... Last night he made me cry forever and I was laying next to him and I dont think he noticed and if he did he didnt care. hes going away soon and I wish I could stay with him but this will be just what I need to get away from him. hes like a robot he has no feelings. he is so selfish and i dont kno why i wasted so much time with him. im going to hang out with him until he leaves, but after last nite i dont even think i can fuck him. i told him to call me so we could actually have a conversation for once, and we didnt. im tired of being used. and I really hope I find it in me to not let this break up make me depressed because thats where it's going. I dont understand why it's so hard to find a good guy. I do like myself for the most part, I know i look good, and I think I have a good personality, I'm fun and giving, but for some reason the only thing guys pick up on is my doormat qualities. im just not going to look and hope the man of my dreams shows up.

and grazil i thought that you were moving to be with that lady of yours somewhere?

[GraziLovesMary]

Im done ... Last night he made me cry forever and I was laying next to him and I dont think he noticed and if he did he didnt care. hes going away soon and I wish I could stay with him but this will be just what I need to get away from him. hes like a robot he has no feelings. he is so selfish and i dont kno why i wasted so much time with him. im going to hang out with him until he leaves, but after last nite i dont even think i can fuck him. i told him to call me so we could actually have a conversation for once, and we didnt. im tired of being used. and I really hope I find it in me to not let this break up make me depressed because thats where it's going. I dont understand why it's so hard to find a good guy. I do like myself for the most part, I know i look good, and I think I have a good personality, I'm fun and giving, but for some reason the only thing guys pick up on is my doormat qualities. im just not going to look and hope the man of my dreams shows up.

and grazil i thought that you were moving to be with that lady of yours somewhere?

I moved from Maryland to Columbus to get out of Maryland... yeah I chose this place and was inspired to really do it for a girl but she just never called me one day before I had even left, and it turned out she went back to her ex boyfriend. I didnt let that stop me though, and she is now regretting it, but knows damn well she wont get another chance.

Thats why I surmised that I must not be meant to have a relationship in this life. However, I will still always and forever be in love with you god damned women lol for better or for worse.... another reason why Im going to temples in Asia to train hardcore in the martial arts lmao

[FakeBoobsRule]

After looking at the sexy pic thread, you don't have any reason to be afraid to leave him. You should find someone who will treat you right and you shouldn't have any trouble unless you have some hiden mental issues or other personality traits we aren't aware. Set yourself free!

[GraziLovesMary]

After looking at the sexy pic thread, you don't have any reason to be afraid to leave him. You should find someone who will treat you right and you shouldn't have any trouble unless you have some hiden mental issues or other personality traits we aren't aware. Set yourself free!

Thats what IM sayin!! But everybody is their own worst critic I guess :-\

And hey... whats that youre cookin?? I can smell it from here...

[420MissHighTimes420]

I moved from Maryland to Columbus to get out of Maryland... yeah I chose this place and was inspired to really do it for a girl but she just never called me one day before I had even left, and it turned out she went back to her ex boyfriend. I didnt let that stop me though, and she is now regretting it, but knows damn well she wont get another chance.

Thats why I surmised that I must not be meant to have a relationship in this life. However, I will still always and forever be in love with you god damned women lol for better or for worse.... another reason why Im going to temples in Asia to train hardcore in the martial arts lmao

that girl must have been insane!! or just plain stupid, because from your posts any girl would be soo lucky to have you.

[GraziLovesMary]

that girl must have been insane!! or just plain stupid, because from your posts any girl would be soo lucky to have you.

ehh Im not special or anything but I do know how to treat a woman. But it seems that the women that I allow myself to get involved with are the kind that are always wanting more... meh what happens, happens. It happened for a reason too. Im in a new city and lovin it. Clearly we werent meant to be together so better find out before I even move so that Im moving here for ME and not her.

And here I am