I feel so drained and used

[stinkyattic]

Ditch that creep before anything REALLY abd happens... my ex started out like that, and when I was like, no, you can't have any more free weed, he just started STEALING it from me. The selfish user asshole comes with many faces but he's the same jerk.

You feel trapped? You also are upset with your job as I recall from another thread... time to do an overhaul on your life. You will be surprised at how much strength you actually HAVE, and you don't even know it because this dipshit is draining it out of you.

[psteve]

how the hell do i get strong enough to do that?

Here's your answer...

You will be surprised at how much strength you actually HAVE, and you don't even know it because this dipshit is draining it out of you.

That's just what I was going to say.
Take back your strength.

[420MissHighTimes420]

^^Thank you all so much. It is clear what I am supposed to do, and that is to dump his ass ... and here it comes .... BUT I can't handle ANOTHER failed relationship, I'm not ready to deal with it, I know it will only get worse as time goes on, but right now it will kill me. I can't keep friends longer than a few months -- the one best friend I had I just cut out because I'm able to be a bitch to girls -- I have lost all connection to my parents sinceI moved out. and I have gone through some BADDDDD break ups before.
here I could keep going on with excuses. your all right. I needed to hear it, and hopefully I iwll find it in me to be alone for once.
Once agian thanks.

[stinkyattic]

It isn't failed if YOU are the one who says, I am not getting what I need. I am the one who CHOOSES to leave.

[GraziLovesMary]

^^Thank you all so much. It is clear what I am supposed to do, and that is to dump his ass ... and here it comes .... BUT I can't handle ANOTHER failed relationship, I'm not ready to deal with it, I know it will only get worse as time goes on, but right now it will kill me. I can't keep friends longer than a few months -- the one best friend I had I just cut out because I'm able to be a bitch to girls -- I have lost all connection to my parents sinceI moved out. and I have gone through some BADDDDD break ups before.
here I could keep going on with excuses. your all right. I needed to hear it, and hopefully I iwll find it in me to be alone for once.
Once agian thanks.

Youre being too hard on yourself, it sounds like you dont fully love and accept everything about yourself. You need to be able to say that... you have to love it all in order for somebody else to. You gotta be comfortable with yourself, and happy with everything that makes you, YOU! Go on babes, do watcha gotta do and FEEL GOOD ABOUT! Were rootin for ya

[higher4hockey]

im not sure if i remember correctly, but i think it was you that i told " if you act like a doormat, don't be surprised when people walk all over you."

do people walk all over pitbulls? i dont think so...

i hope you get what i mean this time...or if you already did, at least take it to heart.

[ScaryMissMary]

Listen to everyone, they've given some wonderful advice. They have all given me some advice that I am forever thankful for. Were both kind of in the same ugly boat.. kinda. Well we both love assholes who don't deserve us. As much as we build ourselves up, we turn back into idiots when we see them. Im not sure what Im trying to say since everyone has said it already but Im here for you if you ever need someone to talk to. You have so much love and strength in you, you just have to build it up and not give it away to that dipshit.

[GraziLovesMary]

You ladies should move to Columbus.. I would date either one of you in a hearbeat, but I dont think Im meant to have a relationship in this life. However I could at least show you how you should be treated, and I could introduce you to people who would treat you better.

Lol I should start a service for women... Id be a mix between Hitch and Dr. Phil hahahahaha.

[ScaryMissMary]

You would be a rich man if you did that! lol

Im about this close to taking you up on your offer. Psh..

[Ganj]

Earlier, when I said that I have the same problem that your boyfriend does...I didn't mean it. I'm actually a really nice, considerate, handsome fellow, in search of a wonderful woman to serve.