Im very honest and up front. I dont play games. And I dont use the "I wanna be friends" tired lines. Because frankly, I dont want to be friends and saying you want to still be friends is bull. Theres no nice way to do it without relying on the old cliches (It's not you its me, etc.), but guys hate to hear those. Soooo youve got to find a way to say the old cliches in new ways:

"I think your such a nice person and really good looking, but theres something about me that isnt ready to go there right now. Im just not ready to date you."

"Ive gotten to know you better and I think were too different- I dont think we'd have a good future together."

"Were at two different places in our lives, so I just cant date you."

Your a great guy, but im not interested in you for a relationship. If you want to be my friend, you can email me."