Thanks for the advise. i would like to get new soil, but my current situation wouldnt allow me to get new soil. anyways they look good to me in this soil. the first two pics have the mix of potting soil/dirt/sand and the last pic is just the potting soil.

i started em all out in those jiffy pots with just potting soil. so far i still have the last one to re-pot. but until an opening comes up in my schedule the last will have to wait.

I hope that at least one plant is female. my plan is to keep 2 plants and throw one out.