yes we have some friends that we play with too. if there wasnt some sort of attraction then it wouldnt happen. if you are not my friend then you cant have the bennifits either, lol. we have made a rule for ourselves though, we only play together and being just friends with them is how it will have to be. we deffinately dont want a 3rd partner or anything. i have seen several of those and they never make it. generally speaking though after the initial having sex gets out of the way then it usually just turns to friendship. deffinately no exes involved, ever.