Friends with benefits

[Spoken Word]

Yea, I've had some. One turned into a long relationship.

As long as both parties respect each other and don't brag about the "benefits", I think it's fine.

[GraziLovesMary]

it's the honest ass thing... i get the same

Its a self-perpetuated curse lol.

[twoguysupnorth]

yes we have some friends that we play with too. if there wasnt some sort of attraction then it wouldnt happen. if you are not my friend then you cant have the bennifits either, lol. we have made a rule for ourselves though, we only play together and being just friends with them is how it will have to be. we deffinately dont want a 3rd partner or anything. i have seen several of those and they never make it. generally speaking though after the initial having sex gets out of the way then it usually just turns to friendship. deffinately no exes involved, ever.

[La Terraza]

friends with benefits.
Wonderful in theory right?

Friends with benefits is one of those things that you want, so bad, but it never turns out right. It's too hard for two people to share so intametly and not expect for at least one of them to feel something more.
I myself, have had a few here and there, but It's not my thing, im more into relationships than flings or "just-for-funs"

None of mine have ever turned into exes though.

[420budtoker420]

ive had 1 and only one, when i was 17, i had liked her b4 and she had lied me but we didnt want to ruin the great friendship we had so we decide to stay friend, but have sex here and there it lasted about a month then we both decided it was to hard, now we are still good friend and evrythink is fine.

[MadSativa]

How many of you have one or several of those? Are any of them ex's? Have you gotten somewhat attatched even though you know your not supposed to or vice versa?

Its so freakin confusing right now.............. I just know I have to put out when they ask cause they have done the same. The other day I was with an ex and she started talking about her husband. I was like what the fuk when did you get married, she said like 2 years ago and you were invited. I gotta keep track of this shit cause that wasnt kool I just thought she started coming around again cause she need lovin too. And we have seen eachother about 3 times this month and its only the middle of the month..............Im going to hell..............and I broke my own rule and dindt even know it, I need a vaction another couple weeks and hopefully

[Mississippi Steve]

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[420MissHighTimes420]

I have had some bad and great experiences as being a friend with benifits. sometimes one person gets hurt because the one wants a relationship and the other isnt ready for it yet.
i do however have one guy who i can have sex with, no strings attached purely physicall fun, and then joke about it the next day. we are good friends bc we can be honest and open with each other. too bad hes going back to rehab for 3 months he left last night such a shame.

[BlAzInIt4:20]

I have one... and only have had one.

We have this strange connection when were alone togeather it feels as if theirs nothing else in the world and we can talk about our relaitonship problems, or any kind of problems. We also have this lust for each other that is un real...

But when it times to go on with our day we just kinda pull out of it and do our own thing. We both see other people and we both have no jealous feelings we actually help each other... I love it..

I have a feeling we will be friends for along time..