For those in a committed relationship

[thcbongman]

That's all I wanted to know.

I'm just so in love with someone, it's a type of love I never felt before. No matter that's she apart right now, the love I have for her energizes me, she's the one that's in my dreams. When I see a girl that's smokin' hot, I kinda wonder, but I want the focus to be solely on her. I simply don't want to screw that up, not that I'll act upon it. I would never hurt anyone like that.

[rebgirl420]

You bet I have those thoughts. Tho id never asct on them.

[twoguysupnorth]

yes most everyone finds others attractive. the thing is when we do we even talk about it. we are together but we really went for someone who really wouldnt be our "type" go figure.

[GraziLovesMary]

Yeah when I was with my ex I was perfectly happy with the idea of spending the rest of my life with her, but my ever calculating and imaginative mind couldnt help but wonder what it would be like with various different people. I never would have acted on it though, just like most people here.

[13thirteen]

I have been married for going on 3 years so we are still in that newlywed state, but I woud do George Clooney if the opportunity arose. I am fair though I would let my husband do Jessica Alba, other than that I do not wonder

[Reefer Rogue]

No i don't wonder what it's like to be with someone else. I don't waste my time thinking about other girls in that way. I'm very happy and grateful to be with the girl i'm with. I would be the biggest idiot in the world to cheat on her. I've never cheated on a girl and i never will.

[not_the_kitty]

When I get feelings like that I just remember all the good times and good conversations I have had with my girl and it makes me forget other attractive women I see. Sure I could probably leave my girlfriend and go try to have sex with someone who might look better but how likely is it that they are a perfect fit for me and have all the same ideas about rasing kids and have the same goals as me. And in the end everyone is all wrinkled and old so why not get someone who will sit on the porch and talk with you for hours.

[GraziLovesMary]

I feel I have to add, that although I would have thoughts about what it would be like with other people, that doesnt mean I WANTED to be with those other people. My mind just cant help calculating future event horizons in ANY format it seems. Just something to do to pass the time lol.

[Spoken Word]

I WISH I was in a committed relationship. I've had my share of meaningless sex and I'm positive I was born for a committed relationship. im a romantic, just like my father. that's why i have high standards.

If any of you are in one, cherish it. Cause people like me are waiting for you to mess up lol... just kidding..............

[kdspecial]

Everyone has those thoughts from time and time again... We are only human,, And our natural instinct is to Create Life...

Well at least from a Male side anyways...

their Fantasys. And from what I understand are totally natural.

Now thats just a sexual thing,, but yeah I've had thought of others and some that I know, some I have never meet etc. But I know,, THE GRASS ONLY LOOKS Better It really isn't.

The one time in my life when I decided to jump the fence and go to the Supposed greener grass.. I was welcomed,,, but I found out that it wasn't greener,,, then got slammed and found my self with No grass at all in the end.... The lesson was learned..... I was a college student at the time but I will never forget that....

So in short everyone has thoughts and Fantasys but yeha acting on them Is terribly wrong.

If you lie to your partner,, Only you get hurt in the end... because some times the partner will never find out about it but you have to live with the lie every day.....

kd