a quick note, here, i took some of te leaves to the hydro guy, and his wife told me that the pruple was normal to a plant called purps....as she said, she ad seen purple stems and leaves on plants with the word purple in thier names....so i guess that is that on the purple stem and leaf problem.
thank you all sincerly, from the bottom of my heart for your efforts to help me.
inbud
thank you again