Quote Originally Posted by maryjanemama
You're right, both ppl have to have an understanding first. That's why I put the part about both partners agreeing at the end. Doesn't anyone read the whole post before they comment?

Truth and honesty are the 2 biggies here. Cheating and lying are totally different than experimenting within a relationship.

Once a cheater always a cheater?!! Have you been talking to my mother? Kidding, altwnyguy73...I know what you're saying.
MJM...I am in complete agreement that there is nothing wrong with experimentation...variety is the spice of life as the say....I did read your whole post...just stating the fact swingers and cheaters are 2 very different situations...open sexuality...experimentation on a mutual basis is great in the right situation....but I still think people that cheat secretly are...well...bad people...nuf said!
PS- MJM ur avatars rock...............peace