Cheating

[Encatuse]

You aren't always right. I assure you. -laughs- I was positive my girlfriend went out at 10 pm with a boy named justin.. I smoked 1/8 oz of weed over the course of like 4 hours because I was so hurt. All my weed. The next day I found out her dad was arrested because he tried to kill someone. Turns out he has alzheimers. I'll tell you, me and my girlfriend really could have used that eighth..

[kraloth]

well all the girls here are gunna hate me but i can lie straight to a girl that im cheating ons face with out eny flickering of the eyes movement of the eyes nothing and me i mean unless i realy realy liked a girl if some nice girl was on offer id take it i wouldent go out and pull a girl but if some girl tats nice came on to me it would take a hell of a gf to keep me from hooking up

[jacquelyne]

thats what i mean
he can do that too
but i can always tell cause he gets certain looks about him almost nervousness.Cause if he cheats on me and i find out i will take a knife to his temple that fucking quick and i wont even think about it.It will be a bad reaction that i will regret but he knows im serious when i say that cause i am.

well all the girls here are gunna hate me but i can lie straight to a girl that im cheating ons face with out eny flickering of the eyes movement of the eyes nothing and me i mean unless i realy realy liked a girl if some nice girl was on offer id take it i wouldent go out and pull a girl but if some girl tats nice came on to me it would take a hell of a gf to keep me from hooking up

[Garden Knowm]

There is no such thing as cheating... if you understand and whole heartedly accept this... you will become very happy and overcome a huge hurdle that very few people can overcome..

We can only work on ourselves and can only control ourselves.. and to put our happiness in the hands of another is ridiculous..

blah blah blah/....... we all know this, yet we get pissed/devestated when the person we love and are suppose to accept is enjoying their life fucking our best friend.

[maryjanemama]

There is no such thing as cheating... if you understand and whole heartedly accept this... you will become very happy and overcome a huge hurdle that very few people can overcome..

We can only work on ourselves and can only control ourselves.. and to put our happiness in the hands of another is ridiculous..

blah blah blah/....... we all know this, yet we get pissed/devestated when the person we love and are suppose to accept is enjoying their life fucking our best friend.

I absolutely agree. Monogamy is overrated. Somehow "commitment" controls us...you can love someone and have sex with someone else. It does not mean your relationship is in trouble, it means you've moved on to a higher level. The hard part is finding a partner who agrees.

[slipnslide087]

i know thats probably true mjm......but its just hard not to feel pissed when i think about my gf fucking someone else

[Garden Knowm]

Does it bother you to think of her fucking MJ : )

[altwnyguy73]

first hand knowledge from bolth sides of the fence... ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!
You can speak of cheating...reaching higher levels in your relationship..whatever

-cheating is real...it hurts...alot...if they care...they wont...or they will repeatedly especially if they think they can get away with.
My best advice as far as reaching a higher level...let the other person know first...then its swinging , swapping...what ever...when someone goes behind their partners back and TRIES to hide it ....not only arent they worth it...they do not respect you for the person you are.....

[XTC]

Jacq A buddy of mine has had three serious realtionships. All is which is was unfaithful. He keeps telling me the next 'love' he finds he will be steady and what does he do? Cheats. The MAJORITY of guys who do cheat will do it over again and again expecially if you keep accepting them back.

[maryjanemama]

first hand knowledge from bolth sides of the fence... ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!
You can speak of cheating...reaching higher levels in your relationship..whatever

-cheating is real...it hurts...alot...if they care...they wont...or they will repeatedly especially if they think they can get away with.
My best advice as far as reaching a higher level...let the other person know first...then its swinging , swapping...what ever...when someone goes behind their partners back and TRIES to hide it ....not only arent they worth it...they do not respect you for the person you are.....

You're right, both ppl have to have an understanding first. That's why I put the part about both partners agreeing at the end. Doesn't anyone read the whole post before they comment?

Truth and honesty are the 2 biggies here. Cheating and lying are totally different than experimenting within a relationship.

Once a cheater always a cheater?!! Have you been talking to my mother? Kidding, altwnyguy73...I know what you're saying.