There is no such thing as cheating... if you understand and whole heartedly accept this... you will become very happy and overcome a huge hurdle that very few people can overcome..

We can only work on ourselves and can only control ourselves.. and to put our happiness in the hands of another is ridiculous..

blah blah blah/....... we all know this, yet we get pissed/devestated when the person we love and are suppose to accept is enjoying their life fucking our best friend.