Quote Originally Posted by XTC
Jacq A buddy of mine has had three serious realtionships. All is which is was unfaithful. He keeps telling me the next 'love' he finds he will be steady and what does he do? Cheats. The MAJORITY of guys who do cheat will do it over again and again expecially if you keep accepting them back.
Ok, I'm going to throw my 2 cents in here....again. I think the reason a lot of men lie in the first place is because they know their girl cannot handle the truth. Women ask questions and say they that they want to know the truth, but guess what? That's complete BS! They don't really, they want to be told everything is OK and they are the love of your life, blah, blah, blah. Case and point, have you ever told a chick what you really did last night? What happened? Did she get pissed off and cry or yell? Of course she did. Men lie to cover their asses, they figure it's better to lie and maybe get away with whatever they did then tell the truth and put up with their woman's complete spastic breakdown.

I can only speak for myself here. I've learned that if you truly do not want to know what's going on, don't fucking ask. If you want to know what's really up, make sure you can take the truth or at least won't turn into a complete psycho when you learn it.

Guys who lie and cheat and repeat in a relationship where it is not tolerated are usually losers without balls in the first place. These guys should not try to maintain "committed" relationships if that is not what they're about. Some guys love lots of chicks as often as possible, there's no secret there. But they shouldn't try to con a girl into thinking that they are something that they are not unless she's willing to jump in the sack with him the next time he brings one of the strippers home.