I think that you are curious.... but do you truly love your wife and does SHE know how you feel. If you are with her,she should really be who you are opening up to.As far as cheating goes I think it is cheating whether it is female or male,when you engage in anything sexual with someone who is not your life partner.But you should talk to her about this too.I know for a fact I would want my man to open up to me,because it will show through to her that you aren't all there during your time together and she'll wonder if it's her or if she's done something wrong.... trust me I know.However maybe she would prefer not to know and to remain innocently ignorant of this type of issue in her husband.I don't know as I don't know her or you,Babe. But i would want to know.... I agree with Stinkyattic on a change in your surroundings or a change in your career choice....or simply try something romantic and seductive and completely out of the ordinary with your wife ....maybe that's all you need.Something to revive the sexual drive you obviously used to have for her that gets bogged down and forgotten as you pass through life day by day.Either way....good luck and peaceful thoughts and dreams being sent your way darlin'!!!

<3, Tiva:jointsmile: